80 Ten common problem after the

[ 2010年3月21日 ]
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1. All day long soak in the Web, do not know what to do. 80 after the word most frequently said was "boring\

Recommendation: Chat as a basic means of communication, the aim is to achieve recognition. Internet chat is difficult to achieve this recognition, so the more the more boring talk. Study and work tired, and play a game to play right, but Daguai Lian Ji, who is basically not worth the game, and time-consuming, physical injury, but also to spend money. Can play a strong play fun casual games, such as "The Packer empire" and the like, easy humor, a little style does not make sense, it is able to reduce fatigue. Depend on the game to exchange feelings is unrealistic, and to exchange feelings best to find someone go to a coffee bar, or a phone call Fort porridge bar.


2. impetuous, good prediction unknown jump to conclusions. Pairs seen movies and TV shows will be revealed to others by complaining that the plot or the outcome of the next one. Right do not understand things, according to a little bit of information to make a long view, and mostly critical. There is no reason for impatience of authority, but not openly challenge, eager to influence a few people around and have a strong desire to be recognized. If they can not fulfill our wishes, no longer speak, some people will fly into a rage, so that others understand.

recommendations: more than go on a trip, more books, take part in more group activities, more social contact. The vast majority of the world the truth in our vision, the impetuous performance of the individual cultivation of shallow people are not only social members are also an integral part of the natural need to accumulation of as much as possible to learn more about the world in order to achieve the consciousness sufficiently high to allow people seem less impetuous.


3. thin, do not love sports. Robust mockery of those who feel, afraid of the muscle and strength. In the aesthetic effect by the Japanese-style comic books, advocating the United States and pathological neutral America. Have a certain relationship with the first point, in the body's endurance, tenacity and explosive power, the more interested in the latter. However, after being stimulated, will demonstrate pathological stubbornness. This showed two extremes, on the one hand fragile, and are also occasionally surprising move.

suggestions: fitness, more outdoor exercise. Closest to the natural human body is part of a healthy and strong is not easy to be knocked down by the body allows us to lifetime earnings.


4. character weakness, like his own will, did not justify firm. Do not like through communication with the outside world views to achieve unity, but the surface of compromise, inner revulsion expressed as commonly referred to as treason. Character weakness manifested in getting along with the opposite sex is easy to commit animal in nature, the normal care of the opposite sex aspire to the impossible. After a clear idea how the thing, even really like each other, did not dare to boldly pursue, but find a reason to retreat. The usual reason is said that he did not understand love, do not want to know.

Recommendation: glamorous and people fight one, is talking about a child eight through love. From the perspective of natural law, and as the male animals, and same-sex courtship bio-fighting and to the opposite sex is a sign of maturity.


5. negative and refuse to grow up. Do not like people say that mature, in particular, can not tolerate is people say the old man. Impatient with their elders to discuss some practical issues, the political antipathy, dislike the presence of elders to participate in entertainment. To be responsible thing, make them feel anxious and helpless.

Recommendation: trying to understand the parents is not easy. Can also be obtained from a philosophical level, to understand and pay the dialectical relationship between, as textbooks say the relationship between rights and obligations.


6. selective autistic, to acquaintances nagging endlessly, without a word to strangers. Preference for the use of dialect or language network language and other non-public. Smoking, but not offering each other cigarettes. Drink, but not toast. Not the topic they are interested in is basically very difficult to talk down. People participate in the discussion, if no one invited him to speak, even though he has been brewing for a good speech, or will choose silence.

recommendations: These are actually the communication difficulties. Propose to expand the knowledge to expand the social circle, changing the way conversations with people, brave to express their views in an effort to communicate their views and influence others. Recognition arises after the stimulus, repeated several times, you can out of the autistic


7. Habit of staying up all night before the age of 25 is obvious more overnight. Sometimes, in order to "reasonable arrangements time\In fact after midnight are asleep.

recommends that: with the first 5-point the same, stay up all night is actually autistic at play. There are people who used to stay up all night, sleeping during the day to find the reason to close to avoid the harassment of the outside world. Although there is no sleep during the day or at home, because the spiritual malaise that can lead to "the outside world not my thing," the illusion, but also to achieve the purpose of harassment against the outside world. Recommend the immediate change in work schedules, open hearts.


8. There is no reason for arrogance. Feel that others are unlikely to understand themselves and others as a reason for disdain. Unwilling to listen to other people's suggestions would not listen. This arrogant they do not even know why.

Recommendation: As the era of factors, 80 self-esteem after the more vulnerable psychologically tend to be more self-protection, manifested in distrust of the outside world. Suggested a better understanding of some social rules, no matter what the occasion, as long as you are within the rules, you are safe, and are free to express their existence.


9. things are not according to plan, hate step by step, never knew money gone. To also look at more than novels, comic books keep more than proud of. Like to work simultaneously on several things, so busy that they prefer the state of being utterly exhausted, even though these things as long as the arrangement is entirely possible and reasonable step by step easy to complete.

Recommendation: haste makes waste this reason do not have to say bar. Learn to plan, a comprehensive emergency situations can be avoided the risk of collapse.


10. do not ask questions, I believe that the authority of Baidu and Google, most people like to use search engines to think the search engines as their own think-tank.

recommendations: the Internet really has given us many conveniences, but many of which are things on the Internet without the research, can not withstand scrutiny. Therefore, to avoid mistakes, this place is in need of wonder out after 80 years, can not rely on the Internet Ershi their own learning function degraded.
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